CHILD ABUSE DUE TO PARENTAL ALIENATION AWARENESS DAY


APRIL 25TH CHILD ABUSE DUE TO PARENTAL ALIENATION AWARENESS DAY RALLY
It’s confirmed!!…we got the approval!!…..Moms, Dads, Grandpas, Grandmas…start your engines!!, this is what you wanted and now you got it, an opportunity to tell our city how your child is being emotionally abused due to Parental Alienation.
When: APRIL 25TH
Time: 1030am- 4pm
Where: James R Thompson building
The ball is in your court…..now is up to you!….how many parents will show up to the rally?….how many people care about our children?…is not enough to sit down and “like” a post, our politicians need to see and hear the people, the media needs to know how bad this is affecting society in general, 5 nor 10 people with signs won’t do, we need everyone , every member, every friend and their families to show up,
BE YOUR ALIENATED CHILD’S VOICE APRIL 25TH!!
your rally is right in front of city hall and the Daley building, I don’t know of any cause more important than stopping our children’s pain, share this with your friends all over Illinois, all over the US.
Please keep posted, more information coming
Juancarlos Felipe
President
illinoisfathers.org
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PARENTAL ALIENATION AWARENESS DAY


APRIL 25TH PARENTAL ALIENATION RALLY
Dear Family
Please help me understand….the last post asking people to sign a petition to have Chicago declare April 25th a ” CHILD ABUSE DUE TO PARENTAL ALIENATION AWARENESS DAY” has reached about 430 people in about 24 hours…..yet……ONLY 11 people signed petition?
It also was shared only 1 time?
I was always taught not to assume , and I won’t. but due to the many letters that we received during our existence as an organization hundreds of members and friends expressed that Parental Alienation was and still is an action not penalized in our judicial system therefore will be practiced by an uncaring parent knowing that he/she won’t be legally punished and will be able to separate your child from you, a caring parent.
As President of Illinoisfathers.org , I will accept the responsibility of making a wrong decision, however I still stand strong and firm and I do not believe that fighting Parental Alienation is a wrong decision…so if you also believe with me that is wrong to keep a child from a fit parent then let’s all help each other…
IF YOU COULD USE YOUR PAIN AND TURN IT INTO STRENGHT THERE IS NOTHING WE CAN’T ACHIEVE!
– Sign the petition
– Share the petition
Juancarlos Felipe
President
Illinoisfathers.org




APRIL 25TH INTL PARENTAL ALIENATION DAY RALLY


Dear sisters and brothers:
This coming week we should now if we get the approval for our demonstration in downtown , Chicago, at the James R Thompson building, if you are familiar with the area you know very well is very heavy populated area, perfect for our rally, when I spoke to the person in charge of events she confirmed that there shouldn’t be a problem in approving application for rally but we still have to wait for an answer, I’m very positive it will be approve, please start making plans to be with us that day, if anyone wants to help out please let us know in facebook.
Everyone is invited, I like to extend a special invitation to our members and friends in Chicago and surrounding areas, invite your friends,family.
Suggestions:
– Bring your folding chairs
– Bring a snack ( restaurants get a bit expensive In the area)
– If you like to be a speaker let us know in facebook
– Anyone knows anyone in the media?…tv, newspapers, radio?
– Prepare a list , so( as soon as we get approval) you can invite your Reps or Senators to be speakers…is much better if invitation comes from their constituents, but Illinoisfathers will also send invitation
– lets help each other by car pooling, if you have a large car and like to volunteer please let us know in facebook
– Bring signs, place pics on them ( if you choose to)and mention when was the last time you saw your child due to parental alienation.
You have ideas, suggestions? constructive criticism?….send them, Love to hear from you
Juancarlos Felipe
President
Illinoisfathers.org




ABUSIVE ORDER OF PROTECTIONS


Please watch this video, it coves a reason why there is a need to fix this problem, one thing that it fails to mention is when in an order of protection based on false allegations the child is included that’s when the accused parent (father or mother) is separated from their child and this order is usually good for two years with the option to be extended if accused parent disobeys order, this is the beginning of the nightmare…we need to fight this together without falling in the government’s game of divide and conquer that has the two genders against each other, there are many responsible and honest fathers and mothers, just like there are many irresponsible and dishonest fathers and mothers, our main concern….that our children do not have to pay the consequences of dishonest parents, I hope after watching this video you become motivated to be a part of the change and join the committee that will work on legislation and come up with a bill against this injustice.

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Juancarlos Felipe
President
Illinoisfathers.org



ALIENATION,ORDER OF PROTECTION, SHARED PARENTING


Dear family,a few points to cover, our shared parenting bill did not make it to the rules committee, our last chance was Feb 10th, I’ve called Rep La shawn Ford several times to talk about the bill, and I will insist in a face to face meeting with him, this must not be taken as a failure, we will take this as an opportunity to make a better bill, also in plans are ….with your help….bills against Parental alienation, Abusive order of protection, I’m still waiting for you to let me know who wants to be a part of the committee against these two important issues that affect our children…so the next question is…why haven’t I heard from you yet????…you the parents that complaint that your children are being alienated, you the parents that complaint about abusive orders of protections that are separating your children from you.
We all need to be a part of this, can you imagine 10 people showing up at the rally April 25th?….what will that say to judges? what will it say to the press?, I know you are hurting, I know , we all have been there, but in your pain you need to find the strength to stand and the faith to believe , to believe that you can change this, faith is great I have tons of faith, but faith needs action.
Please don’t “like” this message …share it instead….or better yet comment about it .
Juancarlos Felipe
President
Illinoisfathers.org

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ALIENATION IS PENALIZED IN USA!


Did I get your attention?….great, well….this is what the headlines could be saying if we work together, if we walk the walk more than just talk the talk, April 25th is International alienation day and we are going to be looking for volunteers to have a peaceful demonstration in Chicago, I’m working with other groups worldwide that have shown interest in making this a worldwide demonstration hoping we get more press covering the event , also we need to form 2 committees to start working in proposing 2 separate bills to fight….
1- Alienation
2- Abuse of order of protections based on false allegations
Remember, no one can do this alone, I know many people have been affected by these 2 issues , but no one more than our children!
Interested in being a part of these 2 committees?
interested in being a part of a demonstration in Chicago against Alienation?
Let’s not just complaint…..let’s do something to change this! , COMMENTS ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN LIKES, ITS EASY TO LIKE, LETS DO WHAT REALLY COUNTS, EXPRESS YOURSELVES.
Juancarlos Felipe
President
Illinoisfathers.org




REVIEW YOUR JUDGE


Ever wanted to tell people how you were treated by your judge?, well, this is a great opportunity and is very simple, just click in the county where your case was seen and it will give you the list of judges in that county, this information will educate other people that may have the same judge and will give them an idea of what to expect in their court date, in the next few days we will also have a section where you will be able to share your experience with other parents.http://www.therobingroom.com/illinois/




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AFTER NOV 16TH AT THE CAPITOL


Dear Family:
I truly hope you had a very warm and happy Thanksgiving day, for those of us whose tables were half empty I wish you peace and hope, hope in your heart that the pain will be over soon.
I’m very thankful to God everyday, but also specially for Nov 16th at the Capitol, for the people that were able to make it and also for those who were not able to make it , we felt your presence and your strength, we felt your prayers. The bill was very well received by many Legislators and we placed the seed in many people in the Capitol, now, we have to make sure we take care of that seed to grow and the only way we are going to do that is by letting our elected officials know what we need them to do for our children, it’s very simple, make the appointment with your Senator and Representative, print the pages from www.illinoisfathers.org , talk with them and leave the printed information, and tell someone else to do it also, get back to us and let us know how was your meeting.
Passing a Law is not an easy task . but not impossible, the ball is in your court, we are hoping around January to have a Bill number , we are working diligently, but as I mentioned a while back, there needs to be more than a President and a Board sending emails, calling, writing , we have many mothers, grandmothers, sisters, friends that have also being separated from their children . not just fathers, this bill will protect the child of being separated from a falsely accused parent, everyone needs to be involved one way or another, everyone!, more news soon.
Juancarlos Felipe
President
Illinoisfathers.org




POINTS REGARDING ILLINOIS FATHER’S PROPOSED LEGISLATION


Points regarding Illinois Father’s Proposed Legislation
1. Maximizing the time that each parent spends with the child (Shared Parenting/Equal Time/Etc.)
a. Prior to divorce, a child spends theoretically 100% (or any other number you choose–but it is typically in the “equal” range) with each parent.  Presently, after divorce, the child no longer has the opportunity to spend any time with both parents together, thereby losing much parenting time with the child’s parents.  The child suffers because of that–there is more than enough research regarding this.  The problem is that the court is forcing the child to give up a relationship that the child had with one parent when the court does not award “equal” time.  So one relationship/bond the child has does not suffer, but the other relationship/bond the child has is decimated. It is confusing and harmful to the child to see a parent all the time to all of a sudden, rarely.
b. By maximizing the time with both parent, the child not only has the opportunity to bond with both parents, but parenting responsibilities are equalized. Presently, responsibility falls heavily on one parent, preventing that parent from employment opportunities and ability to become financially stable and self sufficient, all of which are important to a child’s well-being.
c. Obviously, this only apples to “fit” parents, which is what we primarily have.  And the laws should be written for the masses, not the exceptions.  Where the exceptions exist, parenting time would be adjusted.
2. “Best Interest” Presumption
a. Right now, we pick one parent as the winner–“presuming” that this is best, despite all the research to the contrary.  As a corollary, we are presuming in every relationship, at least one parent is “bad”/”unfit”/etc.
b. Often, because of how the courts work (picking a winner), instead of looking at what is best, the court is subjectively (and biasedly) selecting a parenting style it likes best, despite that there has never been a determination of “best” parenting style.  Often the court is also basing this on a few snippets of information presented by lawyers–untrained in mental health of children.
3. Standards of Proof (Preponderance of the Evidence vs. Clear and Convincing).
a. This is a scary area for multiple reasons.  Although we keep talking about “best interest of the child,” we keep using that as an excuse to ignore the rights of the child and the parents.  The U.S. Supreme Court has made it clear that parenting rights area “fundamental right.”  And for the government to interfere with a “fundamental right” the standard of review is very high–“Strict scrutiny.” Strangely, the law presently does just the opposite–applying the least standard –“preponderance.”
b. There is a middle ground–“Clear and Convincing.”  What is a disgrace with the present statute is that when dealing with the taking of property, the statute uses the standard of “clear and convincing.”  But when dealing with the basic “fundamental right”(parenting a child), the statute lists “preponderance.”  This blatantly shows that money is viewed as more important than the relationship between a child and a parent It takes little evidence (in actuality, “mere allegation” is enough.) to separate a child from a parent, but more evidence to separate property/money. 

Thank you Atty Mick Gearhardt for explaining to Illinoisfather’s members and friends in a more detailed manner the points that are covered in the Shared Parenting Bill.